Chapter
Seven: Support
Janet’s husband, whānau and
colleagues all supported and are still supporting Janet by pulling and pushing
her up the mountain and enabling her to stay there at the top.
7.1 “It’s good to have a supportive
husband” (Janet)
During her interview Janet
signposted a number of times that a support system both as a wife and mother was
necessary while she was a deputy principal but also played a big part in her
decision to become a principal.
Male principals often have a
traditional home life with their wife at home looking after the children although
female principals usually share responsibilities with their husbands (Coleman,
2009). Janet utilised before and during
principalship a wide variety of support systems in the same way as has been
reported for other female educational leaders in the USA (Hansen, 2014;
Sperandio, 2015) including: family, female friends and paying for a housekeeper
to keep on top of the running of their home.
International research
maintains the importance of a husband’s backing when a woman becomes a
principal or takes on a similar leadership role such as superintendent (Kelsey
et al., 2014) or school administrator in the USA
(Young & McLeod, 2001), principal in Australia (Masters, 2015) and president in higher education
institutions in the Philippines (Rosario,
2015). This corresponds with Janet’s
experiences and she specified that her own husband was “a great support” when
their daughter was younger and now. She
felt “lucky because he is a shift worker” and when their daughter was at day
care he would sometimes pick her up at 2 pm so he could spend time with her
before going back on shift. This would
make Janet return home by 3.45 pm so he could go to work although sometimes she
took her daughter back to school with her. When Janet became a principal he
mowed lawns and fixed things until they got a caretaker at the school. When she has difficult times at school and
doesn’t know what she is doing he asks “shall I come to school and sort them
out?”
Family connections and support
are of the utmost importance to both Janet and her husband. When setting up as a new principal Janet had “aunties
and uncles, nieces and nephews coming in hanging up curtains and putting them
into classrooms.” Janet believed that backing
from whānau was vital in her success in becoming a principal which concurs with
Loder’s (2005) USA research which also found that family was a help when women administrators had to negotiate work-family
conflicts.
A third support system for
Janet was her female colleagues with small children who also used the school’s
day care centre. Janet reminisced “it
was nice that a lot of teachers had their children there, had that empathy and
quite often one of us would go and pick up four kids, while their mothers were
still working.” In the USA Hansen (2014) and Young and McLeod (2001)
determined that when women were in leadership positions they could also rely on
their female colleagues with children to assist them if not practically but
emotionally by giving them opportunities to discuss how to balance their
careers and families.
Janet did find support in a
number of people which could have helped her to become a principal at an
earlier time as support or lack of it can make or break a woman’s decision to take
on this role (Loder, 2005) but decided that it was not the right time for her. Janet
understood the external influences in her life and was pragmatic about them. She did have agency over her life but chose to
work within her boundaries (Smith, 2011).
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